Getting dumped is never fun. It’s a horrible feeling and it’s even worse when it seems to come out of nowhere. Like, it’s one thing when you see how things are going South, but when everything seems fine up until the last days and then you’re caught unaware by “the talk” that ends with you being dumped – that’s hard. So in order to be prepared it’s probably a good idea to check in with your boyfriend from time to time and see if all is good. Or you can go down our list of 15 situations that make him want to dump you and see if anything sounds familiar.
1. When you hold grudges for way too long
We all make mistakes from time to time. But it’s always best to learn from them, and then move on. No one likes it when their significant other keeps bringing up something you did that was bad or wrong that happened months or years ago. Let go of that grudge, or he’ll just let go of you.
2. Different world views
Don’t get us wrong, you might like different shows or prefer different styles of clothes or music, but when it comes to things you truly value in life you really should be on the same page. Because while it might be fun to argue about politics or religion at first, it gets really annoying in a little while. For example you might think it’s ok that you’re a liberal democrat and he’s conservative, but then big events like elections happen and suddenly you find yourself questioning how you ended up dating a Trump supporter.
3. When you’re not the one
When we’re in a relationship we like to think that this is the one that’s going to last. We like to plan ahead for the future and imagine where we’ll be and what will we be doing etc. But if he doesn’t like committing to vacation plans that are a couple of months ahead, chances are he just doesn’t see you in his future. He enjoys what you have now, but he knows you won’t be the one to settle down with. And that’s sad and weird, but in the end, what can you do?
4. When you break his trust
Trust is a very important thing in a relationship, and if you break it, it’s almost impossible to get it back. So if you start swooping through his things, checking his phone, etc he’s going to find out eventually and he’s not going to like it.