6 Simple Habits Of A Happy Relationship

Let’s set aside everything we’ve seen on TV and in movies for a minute and simply think what it means to be in a relationship. When the first phase of the relationship filled with hormones, passion, and excitement passes we are left with more than just a few questions and many couples become slightly disappointed – this is definitely not what they show in movies. What no one likes to talk about is that relationships require work, some more than others. When you go to a gym you don’t expect your body to become instantly gorgeous, don’t you? Just like that, when we jump into a new relationship, some time will pass before you and your boo will become a formidable happy unit. You might need to do some heavy-lifting for that, so to speak. Here are 6 simple habits that will keep your relationship warm, happy, and long-lasting.

Sometimes you have to let the conflict be

There’s this utopian idea that a perfect couple in a perfect world doesn’t have any issues whatsoever and if those do emerge – they immediately solve them and live happily ever after. Well, that’s a myth and it might actually hurt your relationship. According to research, couples in healthy long-term relationships actually have unresolved issues and some have been with them for years! While unsuccessful couples often try to resolve every little conflict that comes their way. Here’s the thing – there will always be place for an argument, something that irritates you or your partner, but that doesn’t mean you have to fix it, fix them, and make the world a better place. Some things are simply not worth fighting over!

Be truthful, even if it hurts

Truly healthy and happy relationships are built on trust. If you can’t trust your partner to say what he or she feels and you yourself can’t be truthful all the time, afraid to hurt your partner’s feelings – then things aren’t going to end well. If she asks whether that dress makes her look fat and you think that gaudy orange piece of garment should burn in hell – just tell her about it (maybe in kinder words, but still). And if you feel like he’s ignored your needs or hasn’t been there for you when you needed it – don’t be afraid to tell him that because otherwise how will he know? This is the type of communication that builds a strong bond between people. You might not feel all that happy at first, but believe me, you will eventually!