10 Signs He Wants You to Make the First Move

A lot of women have a fantasy that some traditionally masculine man will come and sweep her off her feet, saying all the right things and making all the right moves. But that dude sounds shady with all of his flashy charm, so give shy guys a shot! They can be the most genuine, sweetest diamonds in the rough – you just need to take initiative and do a little excavating!

1. You feel certain vibes and that he sends you signals, but the first kiss just doesn’t happen! It could mean he is shy, making usually easy to identify signals become tougher. Look out for compliments or if he always seems to be finding a way to be around you.

2. His friends are always telling you that he’s into you and is just waiting for you to make the move. This might be a turn off for some girls, but it’s also a loud clue and an advantage, cluing you into what he’s thinking.

3. He’s been single for a while. He may be waiting for you to be single if you’re not, or he may just have had an eye on you for a while and waiting for you to make that first move.

4. He doesn’t think he’s good enough for you. He might have even said things like this to you in the past. If he thinks he’s out of your ballpark, he might hang back to let you decide.