7 Myths About Marriage

Long gone are the times when girls were growing up dreaming about marrying Prince Charming and not having to worry about anything for the rest of their lives. Men are no longer hunting for a perfect housewife and a mother to his ten kids. Okay, some are, but the general trend is all about building a happy, balanced relationship with your loved one. And yet, we are still influenced by dozens of misconceptions as to what a happy relationship should look and feel like. Books, romcoms, and TV shows are also not helping to build an adequate idea of what a marriage is all about. Now you can find more constructive ideas on social media as people are sharing their own non-fictional experience and the things that worked for them. So, here are 7 myths about marriage you should forget about if you want to be happy with your significant other.

Myth #1: Marriage will fix everything

Nope, dear ladies and gents, marriage is not the ultimate remedy for your soul’s pain, depression, and feeling of loneliness. If you had any of those before getting into a relationship and tying the knot, rest assured they’ll come up again sooner rather than later. Your happiness or unhappiness never, and I repeat never-ever depends on the outside factors, be it husband, money, or a pretty home with a white fence. Many people have all that and they are still miserable! Find the root of what made you unhappy in the first place, use a therapist if you need to, and turn into that happy person that will become even more radiant in a relationship with a loved one.

Myth #2: He should be your best friend

Now this is just a delusion that some people spread as a first grade truth. All relationships are different. You husband/wife may be that sort of person you can tell anything at all, but it depends solely on the way you two roll. Some couple are more romantic, others tend to create a bit of drama, and there is no rule saying you have to run to your hubby with every little problem you face. That’s what best friends are for! They do exist for a reason, you know. Chatting with your girlfriend about that lousy day at work over a cup of coffee is just as important!

Myth #3: It should be easy like a fairy tale

Well, here’s the truth – once you tie the knot, the real hardships begin! New challenges will present themselves and you’ll have to deal with them one way or another. Relationships require work, even the happiest ones. Thinking that marriage is an effortless ordeal will only get you and your hubby into trouble. Make sure you understand the responsibility and enjoy the ride!