10 Ways to Deal with an Unwanted Crush

Sometimes, all the magic in the universe converges and you find chemistry with someone who is also into you. Unfortunately, that doesn’t happen all the time, and it can result in an awkward situation that can be worse than the friend zone. Here are some of the most effective ways to deal with an unwanted crush.

1. Don’t laugh it off
You might think that this is a way of diffusing tension, but joking about the situation can be condescending and make the other person feel belittled instead of taken seriously.

2. Acknowledge his feelings
Be polite and compassionate to the other person – what if it were you bearing your soul to someone? You have the option of saying that you’re flattered and follow up with a positive comment about him so that the rejection is less intense.

3. Or gradually distance yourself
If avoiding him or giving the cold shoulder doesn’t feel like the right thing to do, slowly distance yourself and keep yourself busy with other people, your hobbies, and new adventures. Don’t respond to texts right away or seem too interested in their life. This sends a subtle hint without you needing to confront the situation directly.

4. Set him up o distance yourself a date
Playing matchmaker is a great way to get an unwanted crush off your back. Distract him with a new, cute girl and he’ll be moving on in no time. Setting him up on a date also definitively puts him in the friend zone.