8 Signs You’ve Closed Yourself Off To Love

Painful relationships can take an emotional toll after countless heartbreaks and aches. It is so beautiful to be in love, but not everyone has the best luck with find the perfect one worth it all. Once let downs like this happen, it can be hard to muster the courage to open your heart and try again. Or once you do start dating again, no one potential love interest ever seems to fit the bill. Any of this sounding vaguely familiar? Here are 8 signs that might indicate you’ve close yourself off from love.

You Can’t Stand People Who Are In Healthy Relationships
Sometimes people who’ve been hurt in relationships before really just can’t deal with mushy, super happy couples who on the road to eternal bliss, whether it’s your best friend, a sibling or coworker. This may be a sure indication of being closed off if you can’t even be happy for other people’s happiness.

All Potential Romantic Interests Seem All Wrong
No matter how great a person may seem in the beginning, no one seems worth the hassle of going through the vetting stage, getting to know each other, and making yourself vulnerable to someone new.

You Give Up On Someone Because of The Smallest Hang Up
If you find yourself forming a pattern of ghosting love interests left and right for petty reasons or harmless mistakes they make, you may have some serious emotional blockage. You really don’t want them to get any further than a certain level of closeness with you, because, really, you’re not ready to let anyone in.