6 Signs He’s Not Boyfriend Material

When we like someone, sometimes we only see the attributes about them that we want to see. He could seem charismatic and funny, and like a great person to get to know and spend time with. But how do you know if he is really the kind of person you want to get serious with? Does he show potential as a guy you’d want to be in a relationship with? It can be hard to tell if a guy is willing to commit, or even if you’d want him to. A guy could be great during the beginning stages of courtship, but end up being a pretty awful boyfriend. How can you know if he is worth the effort and time? Check out these signs that he is not boyfriend material.

He spends a lot of time alone.

If he spends a lot of time by himself, it is an indication that he is sure of himself and independent. But it could also mean that he could be stuck in his ways and used to having things exactly like he prefers. This might not leave much room for him to be open minded to considering your preferences or desires.

He says “I” all the time.

If he always says “I” during conversation, it could be a sign that he is pretty into himself, and not really considerate of the world around him, or other people for that matter. If he is only talking about his day or what he is going to do this weekend from his own perspective, he may not see much or a future with you, or think much of you being in his present life either.