It can be hard to know when someone is really into you. Figuring out someone’s feelings, especially if they don’t even know them yet, can be difficult and actually pretty nerve wrecking. This is definitely the case for guys, who may not always be the best at communicating how they feel. And if you are really into this guy, you are probably anxious to know how he feels about you, or if he likes you as much as you do like him. If you are ready to really understand your crush or love interest’s feelings, here are 7 things he will do if he is totally in love with you.
His eyes tell it all.
The biggest sign that a guy is into exists in the way he looks at you. He may not say it, but if he is falling for you, he will look at you like you are sent straight from heaven.
He makes you a priority.
People only make time for what they want, and usually make excuses when they aren’t that interested. If your guy is busy – whether it be with work, school or friends – and he still consistently makes time for you, this is a pretty obvious sign that he really cares about you.
He accepts you for who you are.
Some guys might want you to act or dress a certain way to appease their needs and desires. But if a guy is really into you, he will accept you for who you are, willingly and lovingly.
He gives you constructive criticism.
If a guy doesn’t really care about you, they won’t be invested enough to tell you when you’re off your game. They could easily witness you being self-destructive or making poor decisions, and not care enough to give you feedback. But a guy that really loves you will call you out on your stuff, because they care enough about you to help you be your best self.
He supports your aspirations.
A guy that really cares about you will not only hope you achieve your dreams, but will actively support you in doing so. Does he do things like help you brainstorm new ideas for your business, study constantly with you for school, or even physically show up for your personal or professional endeavors? He is definitely falling for you.
He is reliable even when it’s inconvenient or uncomfortable.
You can really see how a person feels about you by observing their behavior in inconvenient situations. Does he still make sure you are okay after an argument? Does he help you run errands even if it cuts into his free time? Little, but good deeds like this show his true character and feelings for you.
He includes you in his life.
If a guy isn’t really into you, you won’t know much about his life outside of his interaction with you. If you know all your guy’s best friends, his favorite hang out spots and hobbies – or even if he just constantly updates you about his day – this guy is definitely falling in love with you.